Reconnecting with God After Divorce: Finding Peace in a Chaotic World
The world feels like it’s on fire right now—loud, chaotic, values upside down—and something in you knows you can’t keep living halfway anymore. That roar in your lungs? It’s a call to live boldly, fully, and on purpose.
But if you’ve walked through divorce, that fire can feel complicated. Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage—it can shake your faith, your identity, and even your connection to God. I know, because I’ve been there.
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In this blog, I’m breaking down how to reconnect with God after divorce, even when the world feels heavy, noisy, and overwhelming. These are the practices that shifted me from feeling broken and ashamed to walking with peace, confidence, and presence.
1. Realign Your Heart Posture
Your “heart posture” is the position of your heart toward God.
After divorce, it’s natural to retreat, close off, and protect yourself. You’ve been hurt. Betrayed. Maybe even abandoned. But when your heart posture is guarded, even your prayers can feel empty.
Here’s the truth: God isn’t scanning for perfect behavior. He isn’t waiting for you to have it all together. He’s looking for one thing—your openness.
Ask yourself: Am I walking as a daughter of God, or as a victim of divorce?
The good news? Just like physical posture, heart posture can be corrected with awareness and practice.
2. Create Space to Hear Him
God isn’t loud. He doesn’t compete with the noise of your life—your endless to-do list, social media, work, or even your overthinking.
When I was filling every moment of my day, I left no space to hear Him. The first time I sat in silence, it felt uncomfortable, almost scary. But over time, that silence became strategy.
Try it:
- A 10-minute walk without your phone.
- Praying out loud in your car.
- Writing one line in your journal: “Lord, I’m here. Speak to me.”
Stillness feels counterintuitive for high-achieving women after divorce—we want to hustle our way out of pain. But the breakthrough often comes in the quiet.
3. Carry Your Cross Without Shame
Divorce is not the end of your story. It is the cross you’ve been asked to carry—not as punishment, but as refinement.
Carrying your cross means not wasting the pain. It means letting it transform you so you can become the light for others.
Your divorce can become the very place where God refines your strength, your faith, and your purpose.
The Comeback Is Waiting For You
Here’s what I need you to know:
- You’re not broken.
- You’re not behind.
- You’re not done.
If you’re ready for a structured way to rebuild your identity, reset your routines, and step into the woman God has been calling you to be, I created She’s Not Done for you.
It’s a 30-day reset designed for ambitious women after divorce who are ready to get back in the game—with short audios, meditations, and real practices you can implement daily.
Click here to join She’s Not Done today.Final Reflection
If there was a camera following you around today, would people be able to tell that you’re walking with God—just by your presence, your peace, your energy?
Reconnecting with God isn’t about doing more. It’s about being more open. And the moment you shift your heart posture, create space, and carry your cross, you step into your comeback.
Because you’re not broken. You’re not behind. And you’re definitely not done.
Hope you enjoyed this read! xo, Christina
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