Hey there, dear readers! It’s Christina, your guide through the maze of life’s twists and turns. Today, let’s talk about a topic that might be on your mind, especially if you’re navigating the intricate path of divorce—Thanksgiving.

Thanksgiving is traditionally a time for gratitude and celebration, but when divorce enters the scene, it can be challenging to feel thankful amidst the changes. Fear not, though; I’ve got some unconventional tips that might just turn the tables and help you find gratitude in unexpected places.

1. It’s more than just a thank you – share gratitude with everyone who supports your life:
A stop in at the post office to get your mail? Say thank you to the staff that works to get your mail to you. Getting a mani/pedi? A sincere thank you to your nail tech can reach someones heart. So often we go about our day throwing out thank-you’s and forgetting the true meaning. During this time, take a moment to be as sincere as possible when you say ‘thank you.’ When we express our gratitude, we also open our eyes to how supported we are on this journey and feel less alone.

 2. Gratitude Journal, Unfiltered:
Start a gratitude journal but with a twist. Instead of listing the usual suspects, jot down the unexpected moments of joy, resilience, or newfound strength you’ve discovered during your divorce journey. It’s these unfiltered moments that often hold the most profound gratitude.

3. Solo Adventure Feast:
Consider turning Thanksgiving into a solo adventure feast. This year, focus on treating yourself to a day that’s entirely yours. Whether it’s trying a new recipe, indulging in your favorite comfort foods, or simply taking a long, reflective walk, make it a day dedicated to self-love and rediscovery.

4. Volunteer Your Time:
Sometimes, the best way to find gratitude is by giving back. Volunteer at a local shelter, community center, or any place close to your heart. Engaging with others who might be facing challenges can provide a fresh perspective and remind you of the strength within you.

5. Rituals of Release:
Consider creating a ritual to release any lingering negativity from the past. Write down aspects of your divorce that you want to let go of on small pieces of paper. Then, in a controlled and safe environment, set them ablaze. This symbolic act can be surprisingly liberating.

Thanksgiving during divorce may not follow the traditional script, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be filled with gratitude and moments of profound appreciation. Embrace the unconventional, find joy in the unexpected, and remember that even in the midst of change, there’s always something to be thankful for.

Wishing you a Thanksgiving overflowing with newfound gratitude and a heart full of resilience.
Christina, Divorce Coach and Thanksgiving Trailblazer

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