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[00:00:08] Hi, I’m Christina Cuevas. Seven years ago, I went through a divorce, and it completely turned my world upside down. And I’m so glad it did. I documented my healing to share information with other women going through their own divorce journey. And now, With thousands of downloads around the world from divorced women just like you, I’m here to show you how to ditch the shame around divorce and finally heal so that you can regain the confidence to create your most abundant and joyful future.

[00:00:38] I’m so glad you’re here. This is Her Heart Heals Divorce Radio. Hey ladies, it’s your girl, your life transformation strategists beyond divorce, Christina. I’ve been having so much fun with that word because I personally love strategy. That’s part of my personal brand. I’ve been thinking a lot about who [00:01:00] identify as, and while I do coach and mentor women. That word doesn’t really feel aligned for me as far as like how I introduce myself.

[00:01:10] I really love diving into building out strategies. To help us do things more effectively, more efficiently, not waste time. Healing aligning, manifesting, getting rich, becoming independent as fuck you. Get the point. Because who wants to do things for no reason when you could get there a lot faster? Bringing out the most authentic version of you so that you can thrive, baby.

[00:01:39] So life and business strategist. We’ll stick it there. Speaking of stepping into your authentic self surprise. This is a bonus episode, and I’m dropping this episode a little bit early because I had a profound realization the other day. That just deserved a little bit more than a post, more than [00:02:00] a story on Instagram. I want to talk about radical transformation.

[00:02:06] You may be thinking. One, I don’t really align with those words or maybe they make you think of some new age cult, something extreme. The word radical definition does have extreme as one of them, but here’s a definition that was so profound for me. For the word radical. And it had me like really embracing this word. Radical. Can mean. Characterized by independence. Of or departure. Of what is usual or traditional.

[00:02:41] Okay. Ladies, listen up. I’m going to read that again. Radical can mean characterized by independence of, or departure from what is usual or traditional. Like how freaking spot on is that for those of [00:03:00] us that are on a divorce healing or divorce transformation story, right. Here’s the truth bomb. Radical transformation.

[00:03:10] Isn’t about stepping into this other person, some foreign identity. It’s about taking necessary action. To discover the most authentic version of who you’ve always been. The versions of you, who we forgotten along the way. Divorce can leave you feeling like a deflated balloon, wondering. Who you even are anymore.

[00:03:39] Been there, rocked that side. T-shirt honey, but puggle up my love, because we’re about to get the ball rolling, to ignite your inner fire and help you fuse that bridge between the version of you today, to the authentic version of you, which will help you step into your dreams faster.

[00:03:58] Also [00:04:00] make sure that you follow along and listen to the end of this short podcast. I think it’s like 12 minutes total it’s going to be in a lesson format. But at the end of this bite-size lesson. I’m going to have some action items for you so that you can put this into motion into your life and really start seeing some results.

[00:04:19] In my last episode from we, to me, I talk about how to begin to discover ourselves after divorce.

[00:04:26] So be sure to listen to that episode. So you can get a little bit more of like a step-by-step guide, but today I wanted to go deeper on the concept of radical transformation and what it really takes. So let’s get into it.

[00:04:43] Let’s face it. Divorce can mess with your identity. Maybe you feel. That you lost yourself in the relationship, or maybe you never even truly discovered who you were in the first place. In my last podcast episode from Lee to [00:05:00] me, I share about the time that I looked in the mirror and didn’t even recognize myself.

[00:05:06] I had given up so much about who I was. So that I could give it all for my marriage and for the best outcome possible outcome.

[00:05:18] Have you ever looked in the mirror and barely recognized the woman staring back? That’s a sign girl. It’s time to reclaim your power and rediscover that vibrant, awesome woman that you already are, but just not highlighting. You’re not embracing it. Now here’s the thing about radical transformation. The desire for it.

[00:05:41] Isn’t some random fluke. It’s a freaking cosmic nudge from your inner self.

[00:05:47] Those longings and desires that we have is really just curiosity for adventure, passion, or maybe just a killer dance floor move, but your desires aren’t by chance, I talked to a [00:06:00] client the other day and she told me that her dream was to open a school. And then we went a little bit deeper. And she then expanded on that dream and it got a little scary, but she talked about how she really wanted to open. Multiple schools, three or more. To really give children a better opportunity to thrive because she really believed in cultivating a specific environment for children to really succeed. That thought, how cool would it be to open three schools?

[00:06:36] That’s not just something. That someone pulls out of thin air. It’s actually you connecting more to the essence of you. So radical transformation is a really beat, only vehicle. That’s going to get you to get to that place. That’s the [00:07:00] difference between. People that make it happen. And people that wait, they hide behind their limiting beliefs.

[00:07:08] They hide behind their fears. They hide behind their circumstances. They hide behind so many things and don’t take action. Or maybe they take some action and it just takes them a lot longer to get there. And most people don’t realize their dream radical transformation is essential. And. That dream, those desires, they already exist within you.

[00:07:35] It is unique to you. So that means that those desires are meant to be realized at some point. And so that is the bridge radical transformation is the bridge. Okay. Metaphor time. Imagine your desires as a buried treasure. Hidden beneath the debris of doubt. And [00:08:00] self-neglect. Radical transformation is the map. It helps you to dig through the junk and really get clarity, to be able to claim that magnificent life that you are already born with, that you just need to build the bridge to connect to it.

[00:08:19] That is the journey. There’s so many different ways to live our lives. Radical transformation is what’s going to help you. Tap into the ultimate path for you because it’s all a choice, right?

[00:08:37] So I want you to stop and notice how this feels in your body. Radical transformation in your life.

[00:08:49] Just pause for a second. Does it feel scary? Are you getting butterflies? Are you getting like, oh shit. That ain’t for me. Or does it [00:09:00] feel. Kind of exciting.

[00:09:03] So, how do you unearth this? Unstoppable version of yourself. Babe. That’s where my brand new masterclass from divorced to unstoppable comes in. You’re going to learn my secret roadmap to taking self-doubt and fear of failure to creating your dream life and attracting it to you. Like a magnet. Feeling stuck and actually what to do about it. And all my secret hacks to getting there faster as divorced women, we don’t have time to wait.

[00:09:37] The masterclass is actually going to be held next week.

[00:09:40] So the link to register is going to be in the show notes, just click on from divorced to unstoppable to claim your virtual seat. Yes, you will also get a replay. If you can’t make it live, you don’t even have to hit pause on this episode. You can just go to the show notes right now. Claim your seat. And let’s make some magic happen. Remember [00:10:00] transformation.

[00:10:01] Isn’t some mystical Hocus Pocus. It’s about taking action and reclaiming your power. Now that you’re armed with the knowledge that radical transformation is a really just about rediscovering your authentic self. It’s time to take action. I’ve got some action steps for you that I really wanted to kind of give you a friendly little nudge to get the ball rolling on your radical transformation. And so I want to inspire you to do one thing today. That scares you a little bit. Sign up for that dance class. Book the solo trip.

[00:10:38] Take yourself out to dinner. Finally wear this outfit that you’ve been eyeing and you didn’t know if you could pull it off. Remember my love. You are a force to be reckoned with. If you don’t hold yourself in this standard, nobody else will.

[00:10:54] It’s time to embrace your authentic self ignite your inner fire. And [00:11:00] go out there and be unstoppable. What do you have to lose?

[00:11:05] If you loved this episode, don’t forget to rate and review this podcast. It really, really helps me out. And share this episode with a friend who could use a little bit of motivation who is looking for building that bridge between where she’s at right now and where she wants to go. Okay until next time stay radical.