Life doesn’t always hand us neon signs to tell us we’re on the right track. Sometimes, the universe whispers instead of shouts. But if you’re feeling stuck, frustrated, or like something needs to change, those subtle signs may be telling you that you’re ready for a comeback.
As someone who’s rebuilt her life post-divorce and is now dedicated to helping other women do the same, I want to share some insights about recognizing when it’s time to step into your next chapter. Let’s talk about how to spot these signs, what they mean, and how to use them as momentum to build a life you love.
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Subtle Signs from the Universe
You know those moments when the clock hits 11:11, or you see a dollar amount like $77.77 at the gas pump? Or maybe you have your own personal signs, like butterflies or a specific date that seems to pop up everywhere.
For me, a white butterfly reminds me of my late dog, Bella. Seeing one instantly makes me feel like I’m in the right place at the right time. While these signs might not tell you exactly what decision to make, they can be comforting reminders that you’re supported and aligned with the universe.
But what about when we need more clarity? What if we’re desperately searching for a sign to tell us what to do next? That’s where the real signs—the ones happening within you—come into play.
4 Signs You’re Ready for a Comeback
1. You’re Exhausted Trying to Achieve Your Goals (But You’re Not Giving Up)
That feeling of frustration, like you’ve hit a wall but refuse to stop trying, is determination in disguise. It’s a sign that something needs to shift. If you’ve been spinning your wheels without progress, it might be time to step back and reassess.
What if the answer isn’t working harder, but working differently? When I work with women in my Your Greatest Comeback mentorship, I help them create a clear, actionable plan that aligns with their goals—so they stop wasting energy and start seeing results.
2. You’re Obsessed with Self-Help Content
Podcasts, books, courses—you name it, you’ve probably consumed it. You’re constantly seeking ways to improve, which is a beautiful sign that you’re ready to grow.
But here’s the catch: Sometimes we focus so much on external learning that we forget to go inward. True transformation happens when you trust yourself and do the inner work. If you’ve been checking all the boxes but still feel stuck, it might be time to pause, reflect, and start building from the inside out.
3. You Don’t Feel Like You Fit In Anymore
This one hits deep. Maybe your friendships or environment don’t resonate the way they used to. It’s lonely, and it’s hard. But this isn’t rejection—it’s redirection.
Outgrowing your surroundings is a natural part of personal growth. The key is finding balance: honoring the relationships that matter while creating space for new connections that align with the person you’re becoming.
4. You See Other Women Thriving and Think, “Why Not Me?”
We’ve all been there—scrolling through social media, seeing someone live the life you dream of, and feeling a spark of envy. Instead of letting that spiral into comparison, use it as a reminder of your own potential.
Celebrate those women and remind yourself: If it’s possible for her, it’s possible for you too. Surround yourself (even virtually) with people who inspire you and show you what’s possible.
What to Do Next
If any of these signs resonate with you, congratulations—you’re ready for your comeback. And here’s the truth: Your comeback era isn’t just about bouncing back from tough times. It’s about rising higher than you ever thought possible.
That’s exactly why I created Your Greatest Comeback, an 8-week mentorship program designed to help women rebuild their lives after divorce. Together, we’ll tackle the inner work, create a clear action plan, and set you up for a lasting transformation.
Ready to Start Your Comeback?
Your comeback isn’t just a moment; it’s a movement. If you’re tired of surviving and ready to thrive, let’s make it happen together.
Final Thought:
Signs are all around us—both subtle and obvious. But the most important ones are the feelings in your heart and the whispers in your soul telling you it’s time for change. Trust those, take action, and watch your comeback unfold.
Hope you enjoyed this read! xo, Christina
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