I struggled with fitting in, most of my life. In efforts to make friends, I could easily adapt to new scenarios and try to relate to everyone. It wasn’t until I found myself in a messy divorce, did I realize that my whole life had been built around what I thought everyone wanted me to be. I was a chronic people pleaser to everyone except myself. This realization led me on the most incredible journey of healing and self discovery.
Fun Facts about me
I have 3 dogs!
Home is San Diego, Ca
Depresso without espresso
I love to run because I really like dessert
My Divorce Story
5 years ago, I found myself knee deep in a MESSY divorce. I discovered that the person I was married to was doing some shady shit (for lack of better words..) Suddenly, what I thought was forever, was over. Not only was I married to this person, but we also worked together. I was going through divorce, with no job. My ex drained my savings, my legal bills were stacking up, and I was trying to find a new place to live.
I searched the internet for something, anything to help me figure out what to do. Where do I go from here? There was no healing roadmap for me.. I felt so much shame
It was difficult to talk with my friends about it, because it seemed no one had the right words to say or had not experienced divorce to understand what I was going through. I found myself replaying my relationship over and over, thinking what I could’ve done to save it.
How did I attract this person? Why me?
I was so scared I would fall for the same type of guy, I swore off the thought of dating because I didn’t think I could ever trust again. I was broken.
Does this sound like you?
I went through something that rocked my world. After trying everything I could think of, my marriage was over and I found myself filing for divorce and completely gutted. I felt like I failed. My marriage replayed in my mind like a bad song, wondering what else I could’ve done to save it.
I had given everything I had, which includes my health and my identity… I realized I completely lost myself.
Not only was I left to pick up the pieces of my broken soul, but I wanted to make sure that I healed correctly and never found myself in this position again.
Does this sound like you??? Because you’re not alone! Most women who love unconditionally, pour their everything into their marriage…
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